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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Fuck, I gotta descale my espresso machine too. Thanks for the reminder

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Screw that, I'll descale it when it refuses to work due to he built in descale timer! Not anytime before!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Slowly increasing responsibilities?

Wow imagine having the privilege of a childhood

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

I completely agree. If you make thoughtful decisions and stay dedicated, you can reach a point in life where you can start to slow down and enjoy the fruits of your labor. My plan, for example, is to reduce to a four-day workweek once my house is paid off, so I can spend more quality time with the people I care about most. Life requires both hard work and a bit of luck to truly succeed, but with persistence and determination, it’s possible to shape the life you want.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

By Darwin, so much this. If somebody could actually convey the insane amount of work and responsibility that is heaped upon your shoulders when you start having children and running a home, you’d never grow up.

Whatever load you think you’re carrying as a teen - it’s not as much as you think.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

See all the maintenance and tracking of physical portions of my adult life are fine. I have plenty of space to remember what devices need what servicing or care, to pay attention to changes in performance or observe wear.

But the cultural and societal stuff is like voodoo magic to me. Surplus cash in escrow, down deposits, and HELOCs, heck even cultural gossip as a standard of conversation. Nah doesn't do anything for me.

Ask me to manage my physical existence and I can do so indefinitely without complaints. It's the imaginary adult stuff that is beyond me.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (2 children)

My choice to go with instant coffee is paying dividends!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

Instant coffee with a fancy creamer is underrated

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Instant coffee is actually really good once you figure out that the directions lie to you and you have to rehydrate it first.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There are also some really good roasters making their own instant.

I don't use the aeropress at work anymore. It's still better than instant, but not having to worry about getting interrupted mid brew is worth the small loss in taste.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Do you have any recommendations for instant coffee available for purchase online? We've just been getting whatever is cheap but I'd be interested in exploring other options.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

But my body is 60% water!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Please explain, I wish to yield a better return on investment of my time and effort when dealing with coffee

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yeah so the directions for every instant coffee I've tried say to add hot water to the coffee, which is logical but tastes like ass.

If you instead add just a little bit of cold milk first to rehydrate the crystals (or whatever they are) and then add your hot water, you get a respectable if not outright good cup of coffee.

You could probably do it with cold water instead of milk if you prefer black coffee but I haven't tried that.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Get a french press or clever dripper. Much better coffee, and with the clever, much less mess.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

I use a French press. It really is super nice because all the coffee can mix with water then you press it down to filter it. No need for a funnel and wasteful filter paper.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (14 children)

When you learn minimalists weren't actually about the looks but about keeping stupid adult responsibilities on the low.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

Yes!

Wife was saying big, far away houses are getting cheaper and we should buy and retire there. Nope, the more space the bigger the mess she'll do. Can't literally take 2 steps further to drop whatever it's in her hand. I have a dozen reading glasses spread through the house, usually accumulating at a few preferred places.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

The real reason we have disposable products.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

This is where lasting relationships and divorce enter the building. Can you, will you deal with the coffee pot? Or do you pray, with every task, that they take care of it first? Is your other half taking care of it while you feel relief, far too often? Are you sick of taking care of it while your other half is checks other room watching YouTube and scrolling Lemmy?

Is it balanced? Or is it a question of how long until imbalance breaks things?

Adulting is tiring. Adulting is also a key to relationship maintenance.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

We take the opposite approach: never assume your spouse is going to deal with it; see a problem, deal with it yourself.

Our marriage is still a mess, but it's a mess that's not breaking up any time soon. Mostly we both need to stop drinking.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That tactic tends to breed resentment (from both sides) when one person starts to get better at noticing problems. You might get lucky and stay balanced, but you'll probably have to actually talk about that some day.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

That's fair, and I was oversimplifying a bit; there are definitely things that are specific to her or me, that we've either talked about, or settled into a natural division of labour.

Dishes? Yeah that's both of us. Often she ends up loading the dishwasher, I end up emptying it, but not always. Litter box? That's a me problem, she can't handle the smell. Weeding the garden? That's a her problem, I couldn't give a fuck

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

The most adult part of that sentence is the admittance you can’t just go out and buy coffee everyday either.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I am still struggling with laundry, fr

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Pro-tip - newer HE detergents are very concentrated. Use less than you think you need. A half cap is for highly stained items, we're talking grass stains, blood, turmeric, etc. You only need a little for most loads. Maybe a quarter cap or less, or a quarter cup if using real measurements.

Also, if you're using a newer HE washer, also be sure to enable the "extra rinse" on the cycle. They really, really suck at rinsing off detergent by default (especially if you use too much) and will bleach/fade your clothes in the dryer if not fully rinsed.

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