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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago (5 children)

This is such a delicate subject. How do you talk about a societal broad issue without hurting individuals? With posts like these, there will always be people who feel aren't the real subject of it that feel the weight of it, and it's not a healthy way to approach things like this. There is a societal level problem with men's treatment of women, but men likely to see this post likely aren't part of that problem and want to improve things, and posts like this only kind of serve to to put people down. However, it's not like this post shouldn't have been posted, it's a serious topic that should be taken seriously and not ignored.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

How do you talk about a societal broad issue without hurting individuals?

it's like, really simple, like incredibly simple. You talk about the philosophy behind it, you talk about the social implications of these things, you talk about the moral and ethical concerns behind these things.

If you do all of those you will be able to very accurately and precisely reconstruct the specific problem as well as how to find the solution, all while stepping on zero toes.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm a cunt and i blame it on men.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I believe in women's rights and equity and equality for all types of people. That said, I found someone who makes my life interesting. Unfortunately my life is interesting in the wrong ways like half the time. It's aging me and I will die and early death. But that's at least an interesting life. Otherwise she doesn't do shit. No Job, no dishes, nothing. The only and most Important things she does is to teach the kids, do their workbooks together and pay the various bills. That's stuff I can't ever do because I go to work. While I'm happy that she does those things, I think she better find a job after the kids become more independent. That has literally been her excuse for not having a job for the past 15 years. So when the kids are finally doing well in school on their own, I will nag her like she nags me to get the garbage out. I will nag her to go get a job. That's my plan and I'm sticking to it because hey, she should be doing something desirable right? LOL. They cut her stomach up to get our babies out. That's probably the next excuse, a pretty good one, until I have my last breath. And to that I say: "Whatever babe, let me watch my show".

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Please don’t let stupid memes color your personal life weird. Whatever is going on with you and your SO is not a “societal” issue, it’s deeply personal and you’re both mature enough (I assume) to talk like reasonable people about it. Therapy may also help

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