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To be fair also, I'm still presenting as male in public. But seriously how long does it take to remember?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It took me a few months and I still hesitate when gendering myself sometimes, but it's hesitation now, not correction. It helps that I'm out full-time now, though and have been for over a month. You'll get there, girl. Just be kind to yourself.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Thank you. it's hard to change a lifetime of habit, but I still want to kick myself every time it happens.