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[โ€“] [email protected] 66 points 1 month ago (15 children)

The alternative is rape charges... so... yeah.

Edit: If she's vomiting drunk do you think she's going to remember consenting in the morning? Or wake up, remember nothing, and think you raped her? She might remember, she might not. It's a roll of the dice, but there's no way I'm rolling those dice. You go argue in court how "she really wanted you" all you want.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

There are many ways this could go wrong morally or legally. Without being there, no one can know. (Which makes it dangerous legally).

Just because she vomited doesn't mean much. Especially, since they were "pre gaming". Idiots in college would often slam shots or beers in drinking games, throwing up before they had a chance to really absorb much alcohol.

Morally, it depends on the power dynamic. How drunk was he compared to her? In this case, it sounds like the OP wasn't drunk and made the safe decision. Even if he would be morally/legally right, the situation with the bf would probably involve a ton of unneeded drama.

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