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[–] [email protected] 154 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (33 children)

This is such an insightful way to articulate the issue. The conversation mostly revolves around individuals ("men are bad"). This is one of the few times that men are talked about in a way that acknowledges the system at play, that they are a product of an environment and society that has shaped them a certain way.

I've lost the podcast source that talked about "there is no good way to be a man currently". Even for someone who wants to be a better man, there aren't role models or celebrations of " good manliness". There's no positive road map, only a list of "don'ts" and stereotypes to avoid.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago (10 children)

At least that means the routes men take will be more unique

[–] CameronDev 28 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Or they'll all fall down the Andrew "Sex Trafficker" Tate pipeline instead.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

He's not special. Run of the mill pimp.

[–] CameronDev 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I didn't say he was special, just that his type has an outsized influence on young men.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

That's correct. Please accept my apology if it seemed I was suggesting otherwise.

[–] CameronDev 3 points 3 months ago

All good, I did misinterprete what you were trying to add :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

im sorry sex trafficking isn't special?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ugh, in no way am I trying to suggest this is a good man doing acceptable things. I'm trying to suggest he is a bad man doing exploitive things AND that there are many like him that perhaps are less skillful with social media.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

yeah, and i don't think that makes it or him "normal" either. He's an exceptionally terrible human being. That has managed to be the kingpin of an entire attention economy for years now.

In some regards he is special That's why Romania is putting him through the ringer, it's why the extradition might actually happen.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ok fine, he's a special pimp.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

that's one of the ways of phrasing that statement

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