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Yes, lady. That's it... (lemmy.wtf)

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[–] [email protected] 103 points 2 months ago (43 children)

I went home with a lady friend, who invited me into her bed, then said that we're not going to do anything. So, I didn't even try, and we just talked and cuddled. FF to two years later, and we start dating, and she questioned why I didn't try anything that night. Like, duh. A lady says no, it means no. That is what I've had drilled into me as a male since I was a very young age. I'm so damn scared of being called for sexual harassment.

[–] refalo 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm very curious how that conversation continued after you said no means no.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

She was surprised at my answer, because it wasn't what other guys would have done. I guess ultimately she respected it because we dated for a few years.

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