I don't think this will be a very big issue for the majority of the cases though. As long as it's configurable and not a (very) controversial change. Especially, since I don't think that feature requests on a programming focused community will be that much controversial...
What I have observed so far: I think the maintainers are relatively open to changes (compared to a few other open source repos).
Pretty sure, that there's already a github issue on lemmy itself (too lazy currently to search it though)