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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Depends on your priorities and goals.

Do you want to feel good momentarily for doing something good? Get some interpersonal gratitude? Then yes.

Do you want to reduce homelessness in your community? There are probably local projects for that, where your money will be used more effectively.

Do you want to be altruistic, helping people in need and want your money to be used as effectively as possible? Look into reputable charities (like Helen Keller Intl, preventing child blindness and death with Vitamin A is hella cost effective) or funds. I looked into the same thing some time ago and stumbled upon givewell.org. They evaluate charities based on a number of ratings and choose the most effective ones for their funds. Been donating through them monthly for a year now. Also, it is tax deductible so i get almost half of it back.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (9 children)

My opinion is no. They can then use it to buy drugs or alcohol, which is unfortunately likely.

Maybe you could donate to some homeless shelter?
Or maybe, you could try asking if you could buy them some food instead.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Who are you to decide what they're allowed to buy? You'd rather have someone go hungry on the off chance they might buy something you don't agree with?

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Buying them some food I think is the compromise here.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

If you're already standing in front of a food cart, I suppose.

[โ€“] akkajdh999 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It just won't help them improve their lifes

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And? That's not the point.

[โ€“] akkajdh999 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's the point of the original comment and you are bullshitting "how dare you decide what they buy!". They own the money and they decide that they won't spend money to improve a homeless person life if it won't improve it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The point is to help this person temporarily alleviate a problem they have, whatever that problem may be. If you don't want to do this, fine, but if you're only willing to give money if they use that money in ways that you deem wholesome, that's patronising.

[โ€“] akkajdh999 4 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

help this person temporarily alleviate a problem they have

And you mean drinking fucking alcohol lmao. Yeah it's gonna made them feel better for a minute, sure, lol. And fuck them up even worse after that. It's like giving drugs to drug addicts, wtf.

in ways that you deem wholesome, that's patronising.

No onre said "wholesome". If so, trying to help honeless people is "patronozing" then generally. Goverment is "partonizing". Organizations that want to help them are "patronizing".

People on lemmy are SO deranged.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago

The problem is that you are convinced they're going to buy drugs. You do not know that person, it is not your place to decide that.

No, I do not agree that simply offering help is patronising.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

donate to local nonprofits

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

I don't because I'm concerned that they would use my generous gift to just go out and buy drugs. And that may be cruel of me. But I would rather donate to a charity that feeds the homeless, such as a soup kitchen. Or if I see somebody that would look hungry, I would rather buy them a meal directly than give them the money for it.

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