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for the Reddit refugees, do you also feel a bit heartbroken? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It has felt pretty toxic more recently. Often I’d see something and end up just leaving to do something else, I’ve been describing it as the “two-minutes hate” internally for a while now.

There are some good communities and I’ve done a good job of trimming what I subscribe to, but that “popular” button is too tempting.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Honestly, mainstream social media as a whole is practically a two minutes hate. There's a reason why "doomscrolling" is a term. While I do miss the occasional upsetting posts on r/iamatotalpieceofshit or r/facepalm, honestly having them gone for me is better in the long run.