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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I guess? I mean, I go to a venue, get a drink or two, meet my friends, by now I'm probably already undressed, then we have sex, with whoever I feel comfortable with. In the meantime there are at least 60 other people in the venue doing their own thing, BDSM shit, sex, whatever floats their boat. Really nice vibe, everyone is respectful, consent is important.

Its been really nice going to these things.

[–] ICastFist 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I wish I could find that kind of party around where I live

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Look for BDSM munches, in which sex doesn't (usually) happen but people talk about BDSM and hooking up. When the right people like and trust you, the party invites follow.